Sunday, February 7, 2010

Of commitment (Part 1)

My uncle told me,

If you want to commit; be it relationship, personal pleasure, business, career - anything to do with committing yourself to somebody or something, you MUST consider these two things:

1. Whether or not you can IMPROVE yourself, and of course the other party

2. Whether or not, you can FINISH what you started

Often you THINK you want to commit towards something especially relationship, you THINK you can commit, and you THINK you know how-to. The temptation of having an intimate relationship; being close to somebody, use somebody, sharing thoughts and feelings is of course a very hard thing to resist.

After a while, things get plain, bland, dull, or even worse, sour. What you thought would IMPROVE gradually, proved otherwise. What you thought you can FINISH with rainbows and fireworks, took a complete turn.

What should you do? What would you do? What could you do? What do you do?

To be continued...

Dem yuh!


hiddie said...

cant wait to read the rest!

Budak Nakal said...


Well I gues you'll have to wait longer coz I don't have any materials yet. Ha ha ha!

anma said...


Budak Nakal said...


Soon :)

irot said...

felt very anticipated while reading.
mcm those tv shows when the person is minutes away from his last breathe.. TBC. u just have to wait for the next episode to know whether he died or not.
haha drama gile.

cepat cari material.

hehe :)

Budak Nakal said...


Wahh really?

Okay okay soon soon.

Nak Gong Xi Fa Cai dulu this weekend :)

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